southernsweetie
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So, if you haven't seen the movie...this guy has sex with women and then the next person the women are with after him is who they marry.
My story has some minor changes (i.e. not always sex). However, everytime I like a guy I get my hopes up and then they stop talking to me like they use to...find a new girl. and become boyfriend/girlfriend. Here are some examples:
1. Liked a guy over the summer. Things were going good and he texted me everyday. Told me one night by text that he wanted to kiss me the previous night when we hung out. I told him in a cute way that he should have...conversation continued that night and then for days to follow he never texted me. Met a new girl...and they ended up dating.
2. Met a guy. I liked him and he knew it. He flirted with me, however, his best friend really likes me (who I have no interest for at all). Then he slowly stopped talking to me. Started talking to another girl and soon after they started dating.
3. (this one I think I know what I did wrong) Me and this guy were talking. We had hooked up and stuff but I personally lost interest. However, shortly afterwards he met a new girl and they dated with into two weeks. I was talking to this guy for a month and he never asked me out. Now I realize I still like him but we're just good friends.
4. Was talking/flirting/kissing this guy for about a month. Then all of the sudden he gets hung up on an ex. I wasn't really aware at first and went over and layed in his bed and stuff (no sex...he said to my friend that he wanted a chase so i wasn't giving it up right away). He thanked me for coming that night then barely ever talked to me again. Met a new girl and 3 weeks later they are dating.
I want a boyfriend. And I know I'm not trying hard because I'm trying to be a chase. I mean, I let the guy know I like them but I don't give them everything they want in the beginning. I don't know what I need to do to stop these situations from happening. I'm not an ugly girl or anything. It just always seems like the people I want I can never have and the people that want me I never have feelings for...
My story has some minor changes (i.e. not always sex). However, everytime I like a guy I get my hopes up and then they stop talking to me like they use to...find a new girl. and become boyfriend/girlfriend. Here are some examples:
1. Liked a guy over the summer. Things were going good and he texted me everyday. Told me one night by text that he wanted to kiss me the previous night when we hung out. I told him in a cute way that he should have...conversation continued that night and then for days to follow he never texted me. Met a new girl...and they ended up dating.
2. Met a guy. I liked him and he knew it. He flirted with me, however, his best friend really likes me (who I have no interest for at all). Then he slowly stopped talking to me. Started talking to another girl and soon after they started dating.
3. (this one I think I know what I did wrong) Me and this guy were talking. We had hooked up and stuff but I personally lost interest. However, shortly afterwards he met a new girl and they dated with into two weeks. I was talking to this guy for a month and he never asked me out. Now I realize I still like him but we're just good friends.
4. Was talking/flirting/kissing this guy for about a month. Then all of the sudden he gets hung up on an ex. I wasn't really aware at first and went over and layed in his bed and stuff (no sex...he said to my friend that he wanted a chase so i wasn't giving it up right away). He thanked me for coming that night then barely ever talked to me again. Met a new girl and 3 weeks later they are dating.
I want a boyfriend. And I know I'm not trying hard because I'm trying to be a chase. I mean, I let the guy know I like them but I don't give them everything they want in the beginning. I don't know what I need to do to stop these situations from happening. I'm not an ugly girl or anything. It just always seems like the people I want I can never have and the people that want me I never have feelings for...