After thinking more two months that the kid I was crushing on was a boy (I am a straight girl) I was floored to find out that, actually, 'he' was a girl. It took several months to even call her 'her' - I would refer to her as 'him' or even 'it'. A mutual friend of ours coaxed my true feelings for her from me, and pacified my huge terrors of my crush's true gender. I would get worried about anything happening between us and the mutual friend told me to just try to put the worries out of my mind and tell this girl I was into her, and the mutual friend would help me if I needed it.
Well, I finally allowed our mutual friend to tell my crush - and she replied that she already knew and thought I was so cute when I blush, giggle, lower my eyes, bite my lip around her...but I wasn't trying to flirt! I just succumb to nervousness! After my friend told her I liked her, I noticed a difference instantly. I would get head nods from my crush, she would smile, she would look back after she'd walked by me, and all of her friends did the same. Finally, two days ago, she Facebook-chatted me. And we talked, a little, but I was SO NERVOUS. During the chat, she acknowledged that I 'suck at playing it cool' and since then, she's been trying to muster smiles or 'hey's out of me when we pass in the halls, but I simply cannot bring myself to calm down and suppress my smile! I'm also confused as to why she's suddenly started talking to me and telling her friends about me. And her being a girl still semi-bothers me. What should I DO!
Well, I finally allowed our mutual friend to tell my crush - and she replied that she already knew and thought I was so cute when I blush, giggle, lower my eyes, bite my lip around her...but I wasn't trying to flirt! I just succumb to nervousness! After my friend told her I liked her, I noticed a difference instantly. I would get head nods from my crush, she would smile, she would look back after she'd walked by me, and all of her friends did the same. Finally, two days ago, she Facebook-chatted me. And we talked, a little, but I was SO NERVOUS. During the chat, she acknowledged that I 'suck at playing it cool' and since then, she's been trying to muster smiles or 'hey's out of me when we pass in the halls, but I simply cannot bring myself to calm down and suppress my smile! I'm also confused as to why she's suddenly started talking to me and telling her friends about me. And her being a girl still semi-bothers me. What should I DO!