Tinkerbell036
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My husband goes out on a sunday night to play a game of pool with his team. This is fine but it got to the stage where he started coming in later and later, once it was 3.30am with a black eye and a £80 fine for weeing in public, that was the last straw for me and we had a big row and he promised to just go out for his games and come home and admitted he got carried away. he's not doing anything other than having beers with the lads but he is 39 and a director of his own company, owns his own home and we have a child together.
Two weeks ago he came home at 2am so smashed he couldnt walk AND he left the front door UNLOCKED! I have work on a Monday morning as do most (and him) and i dont think its fair that I have to make sure he's locked up etc when he gets in at 2am every time! In the morning what makes it worse is that he completely refutes the fact he was drunk. He says he's just having a good time out with his mates and that Im a phsyco. He says he has done NOTHING wrong and will not listen to reason that I do not appreciate these Monday morning dramas. He has promised so much now he wont do it again but I dread every Sunday now because it just keeps happening. We get on so well all of the time but these dramas cause us to row very badly and I cant bring myself to look or talk to hime and always send him to the spare room until ive calmed down. Has anyone got any suggestions - im going to move out for a while if he doesnt stop but he said "go on then"! It feels as though these nights are more important than our relationship.
Two weeks ago he came home at 2am so smashed he couldnt walk AND he left the front door UNLOCKED! I have work on a Monday morning as do most (and him) and i dont think its fair that I have to make sure he's locked up etc when he gets in at 2am every time! In the morning what makes it worse is that he completely refutes the fact he was drunk. He says he's just having a good time out with his mates and that Im a phsyco. He says he has done NOTHING wrong and will not listen to reason that I do not appreciate these Monday morning dramas. He has promised so much now he wont do it again but I dread every Sunday now because it just keeps happening. We get on so well all of the time but these dramas cause us to row very badly and I cant bring myself to look or talk to hime and always send him to the spare room until ive calmed down. Has anyone got any suggestions - im going to move out for a while if he doesnt stop but he said "go on then"! It feels as though these nights are more important than our relationship.