My husband won’t listen when I tell him what I like when we’re intimate?

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bergamot

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My husband won’t listen when I tell him what I like when we’re intimate?

He just keeps doing things his way, because he sais it always worked on woman he knew in the past. I do not know How to get through to him, He’s a great husband but he seems to be struck with this. Any Ideas from some guys on how to make him change his forplay game? Woman feel free to give any insight you might have as well...
 
O.K. No problem. He needs a slight adjustment is all and he is hard headed from what I'm hearing. Sexually if you are not aroused then you tell him. Then he will go into his, "yeah but" mode ) nobody I've been has complained. Well, not everyone is the same as I'm sure you know in any area of life. Tell him look I want to enjoy our sexual experience just as much as you do. Do I please you? ( Ask him that ) Then he answers. Then you say, " I won't take offense what can I do better if anything to make you enjoy our intimate time together? Anything come to mind or do you want to try a new fantasy?" So now all the attention is on him. After you get your answers and feedback from him then you say, " I want to try it this way, I want to see what this feels like.... will you do that for your baby??" I'll make it worth your while. Give him like a reward for his good behavior. If he doesn't comply with this idea or anything you've tried in the past then I would get a book from Barnes & Noble or see a therapist and as a last resort go screw some hot guy. Just kidding on that last one. Good luck. ~ Tommy
 
tell him next time he says "it worked on women in the past"..........-"THATS WHY THEY ARE WOMEN IN YOUR PAST!".......hahahaha you are the women in his "present" ...but soon to be past if his ass does not start listening to you!!!!! SEX is what i believe to be the MOST important thing in the relationship! IVE experienced this same scenario in my life before also! IT seems (some)men are selfish and just dont care what women want in bed as long as they get theirs. DO SOMETHING HE WONT LIKE IN BED! LIKE, CALL HIM A funny name,hehe or something out there. AND WHEN HE ASKS WHY U DO IT, say, " i saw it works in porn" ------MAYBE THE IDEA WILL CLICK AND HE STARTS SEEING THINGS YOUR WAY
 
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