My husband will not have sex with me.?

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The last time was March 16th. Should I get a divorce? I think he may be gay or on the down low.
 
I don't know as you provided absolutely no other information. I imagine that in the last 10 months you've at least talked about it. If he and/or you aren't willing to work on a solution, then you do not have much other choice. If this is not fixable it won't get better.
 
You should talk to him about that. It is very strange a man don't like sex. You should ask the reason.
 
Your question leave a lot of unanswered questions. Is your marriage good other than not having sex? What is his age, does he watch porn, does he frequent gay bars? So you see it is very difficult to answer you honestly without knowing all the facts. But to answer with what we have, it appears your unhappy and life is to short to spend it with someone who causes you to be unhappy. With that said, divorce this guy and find someone that loves and respect you and want only you. Good luck.
 
Well, have you asked him why? Open the lines of communication.

Also, what do you look like? Did you let yourself go? Did he? Being over weight will cause a low sex drive.

Or, could he be taking care of himself?

We need more information...
 
I wouldnt just assume that he is gay or whatever and jump the gun and get a divorce.I think you need to talk to your husband and find out exactly whats going on.You two should be able to communicate being husband and wife.Tell him your conerns.Best of luck
 
try bathing/doucheing, maybe it is fishy and he don't know how to say it without hurting your feelings
 
Have you asked him why or just layed there in silence. He must have an explanation and you deserve to hear it.
 
sometimes there is something that shames a man or a woman that keeps them from sex, personal depression, that is hidden behind work, or conflict.

He may harbor fantasies that he feels shame in discussion, ask him softly, quietly, allow him to explore his mind with you, without fear.

I have known several this way, and it turned out to be fantasy that made them withhold
 
Ask him and if he doesn't give you a good answer, he may be ashamed that he has this problem.. What is his age, has he been to a doctor, he may have medical problems, such as high blood pressure and high cholesterol which can interfere with erection problems. If its this and refuses to get help from a doctor or therapist explain that you have desires and needs to that he just isn't meeting and its unfair on you to live this way. You then must decide if you want to live with a man who doesn't seem to care about your needs if things don't improve.
 
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