My husband went to a bachelor party in Las Vegas and, as the story goes,

[Jan Black]

got 4 lap dances.? I would have NEVER suspected he would have even considered doing this. I actually encouraged him to go to the bachelor party because I think friend time is important. I thought gambling and drinking, what's the harm. The only reason I got suspicious was that our credit card company called while he was gone, "concerned" about charges. The charges in question total $700, not to mention the $100, or so, that he admits to spending on lap dances. He lied extensively at first, but after a lot of drama, his story now is that he did pay cash for 4 lap dances, touching both by him and the strippers, and the big credit card bill is for drinks only. I told him I'm devasted and because of all of the lying the only way I'll believe "only drinks" is if I see receipts. Not to mention, with every drink he bought whatever strippers he indulged, they undoubtly rubbed all over him trying to sell more dances. I'm totally crushed and can't believe he would let other women touch him so intimately. He claims he got uncomfortable and left the strip club before anyone else in the party. I said 1 lap dance sent by someone else is one thing, but 4 lap dances purchased himself means he liked (a lot!!) and chose to keep doing it. The most devasting aspect is that he paid for sexual gratification over and over again. I can't get the image of him and those women touching and rubbing each other out of my mind. Did I mention that the night he was out indulging himself was also our 15th anniversary....