My husband recently wanted to tell me about things that he felt weird about from either before he knew me, and after he knew me. I don't know what to make of this. Some of the stuff is just what i think is really weird kind of. Am i overreacting?
Before we knew each other:
*Went lots of strip clubs, has gotten 5 lap dances. Each of the lap dances he was kissing the strippers breasts and stuff and on one of the lap dances she gave him a hand job over his pants.
*He was kind of obsessed with this girl he worked with. He went on her myspace and saved pictures of her in a bikini and masturbated to her pictures a lot. But yet he didn't even know her.
*He said that before he knew me he had a porn addiction.
*He had this obsession with an asian girl.
After we were married:
*He still used porn a lot but with time it decreased.
*He was bored one time and didn't have porn and he was job searching. He came across some photos of a job recruiter. It was her profile and had pictures of her with her family. He masturbated to her pictures.
*He had a dvd that he would use on a regular basis called "18 and in training". He used the porn so much that he didn't want to have sex with me anymore. And in order to get turned on BEFORE having sex with me he would first go in the bathroom and look at porn magazines.
I don't know what to make of all of this. And i don't know why he told me some of it. I feel really weird and am i over reacting or is a LOT of this stuff perverted???? Or no??
Before we knew each other:
*Went lots of strip clubs, has gotten 5 lap dances. Each of the lap dances he was kissing the strippers breasts and stuff and on one of the lap dances she gave him a hand job over his pants.
*He was kind of obsessed with this girl he worked with. He went on her myspace and saved pictures of her in a bikini and masturbated to her pictures a lot. But yet he didn't even know her.
*He said that before he knew me he had a porn addiction.
*He had this obsession with an asian girl.
After we were married:
*He still used porn a lot but with time it decreased.
*He was bored one time and didn't have porn and he was job searching. He came across some photos of a job recruiter. It was her profile and had pictures of her with her family. He masturbated to her pictures.
*He had a dvd that he would use on a regular basis called "18 and in training". He used the porn so much that he didn't want to have sex with me anymore. And in order to get turned on BEFORE having sex with me he would first go in the bathroom and look at porn magazines.
I don't know what to make of all of this. And i don't know why he told me some of it. I feel really weird and am i over reacting or is a LOT of this stuff perverted???? Or no??