We just got married 9 months ago and he knew beforehand that I could not leave the state because of my children from a previous marriage. He hasn't kept a job more that a few weeks at a time and has been talking about leaving to many different states since the 2nd month into our marriage. I have slowly been torn up inside with the fact that he finds it so easy to leave me and actually acts excited about leaving. I am completely against it and have given him every rational objection that I can think of, including the truth that I am not willing to live with a 2 day visit every month or so. He is going into a completely unknown situation with no idea when he might ever come back to live with me again. I can't live this way and have told him so. I have promised not to file for divorce as it would mess up his immigration process, but my heart is so hurt and I am feeling so used and resentful that I don't really want him to come back...ever. Am I wrong to feel this resentment?