My husband is having a hard time getting turned on and when he gets turned on we have to have sex right away and it lasts maybe 5 minutes. And some times ok well most of the time we have sex and i cum but he doesn't he asked for a dominant woman i gave it that didnt work, he wanted head i gave it and it didnt work, he asked for sensual and that doesnt work. He only gets really turned on by porn and expects me to be turned on by watching his lesbian porn. He gets alot of four play and some times nothing even comes out of it. But my question is if he thinks im hot and sexy and sexual positions and alot of fourplay( for him) arent helping, and he doesnt give me any fourplay at all. And he has a hard time keeping it hard. whats going on with him? Hes not cheating because he goes to work and comes home. I know this because i take him to work and i pick him up and i know where he is every moment of the day, I keep in contact with his command. i do have some trust problems with him because he talks to his exs and girl friends and doesn't tell me about it. Therefore i keep tabs. but that's another problem. Right now the main problem is that we have been married 1 year and 2 months. We have a 5 month old baby girl. I am horny alot. And he doesnt want to have sex alot of the time and when he does he cant keep it up. I mean usually after a baby and at this point in the marriage sex is not exsistant. Am i doing something wrong and if not can some one please tell me what may be going on with him. He says hes always tired but he sits around at work and does nothing. and he gets more sleep then I do.
please keep in mind that we lived together for four months then got married and then found out i was preggers. he did not marry me to do the right thing we got married april 23rd 09 and found out i was pregnant Mothers day of that year. I was 4 weeks pregnant on mothers day and we conceived on or around the wedding day. My ob says april 10th.
