MY husband confessed that he has been speaking to his ex GF for the past 2 months?

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Armando Jones

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we have been having terrble issues before all of this, he just confessed to me that he searched for his ex gf he had when he was 16 and he tells me he has love for her and that they had something special, she is also married w 2 kids, i know that we both have failed in mistreating eacho other dueing our 9 y of marrriage but i have told him I am willing to make this work I want to save this marriage for my kids sake and bc I love him, but he tells me he does not know if he wants to fix it, he feels there is no hope in us that we are both so diffferent, I dont want to kick him out bc i still love him, he doesnt leave on his own, but what do I do i feel so emotionally confused. he wont take marriage counseling. any advice....
 
it take two people to make it work , i understand you love him and want it to work out for the kids but he has clearly stated to you that he does not want to fix it , i have been in this situation minus the kids i have only end up hurting my self really bad trying to fight for it , the best thing u can do is leave for your kids and you trust me girl you will only get hurt let him go show no emotion.
 
A marriage is not a one way street. The way your talking is I want this to work out, I love him....marriage must be both ways to be successful. Your looking at a divorce. Don't let him use you now that your hanging around wishin' and hoping he will change. He has already told you he loves this other woman. So now go from Hurt Feelings into Mad because that is where this is going. Good luck and get that child support started up on him.
 
oh i'd be pissed. I'd kick is a** out! I'd tell him well, since you love your ex, go try to be with her. I'm sure her husband wouldn't mind. Actually I'd go find her Husband and tell him that she has been talking to your husband. And your husband has feelings for her. He dosn't care, so why should you.
 
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