We've been married less than six months - up till about two months ago our sex life was great, now it is more or less non existent. I am 26 weeks pregnant, however he's told me loads of times that he and his ex had great sex while she was pregnant, so I don't think its that.
It's got to the point where I don't trust him anymore. We spend most days together (he's on incap benefit), so I don't think he'd be able to cheat; but he is going to Gran Canaria next month ON HIS OWN, and his lack of interest in me, plus his desire to leave me heavily pregnant to lie on a beach, surrounded by bikini clad women, with no one to tell on what he gets upto..
Also he wanted me to move back to my house as his 19yr old son was going to move out, now his dad has asked him to stay & there is not enough room for the baby. His son also confessed to his dad that he hates me being here, he goes into the bathroom with his dad when he's bathing, throws my clothes on the floor etc. I've tried several times to get my husband to talk about living arrangements (I'd like us to be a family & raise our baby together) but he refuses to talk & time is running out; I guess he's happy to live separately with his son & see me and the baby a few times a week - he talks about me being his wife, but I don't feel like it.
If he made me feel loved in other ways I may put up with the lack of sex, but although he does stroke my hair in between playing games, and calling me babe, I don't feel loved. He's never even bought me a box of chocolates or a bunch of flowers.
I am serioulsy depressed over this, which isn't good for the baby. I love him so much, but hate that he puts his son, a holiday abroad, his wii and computer over me and our unborn child.
How do I get him to want me again???
I also forgot that he's always ogled girls when with me, but lately I noticed him checking out guys, he told me he had sex with a guy when he was young, but he was drunk and thinks the guy raped him, but he is very keen on anal, both giving and receiving??
It's got to the point where I don't trust him anymore. We spend most days together (he's on incap benefit), so I don't think he'd be able to cheat; but he is going to Gran Canaria next month ON HIS OWN, and his lack of interest in me, plus his desire to leave me heavily pregnant to lie on a beach, surrounded by bikini clad women, with no one to tell on what he gets upto..
Also he wanted me to move back to my house as his 19yr old son was going to move out, now his dad has asked him to stay & there is not enough room for the baby. His son also confessed to his dad that he hates me being here, he goes into the bathroom with his dad when he's bathing, throws my clothes on the floor etc. I've tried several times to get my husband to talk about living arrangements (I'd like us to be a family & raise our baby together) but he refuses to talk & time is running out; I guess he's happy to live separately with his son & see me and the baby a few times a week - he talks about me being his wife, but I don't feel like it.
If he made me feel loved in other ways I may put up with the lack of sex, but although he does stroke my hair in between playing games, and calling me babe, I don't feel loved. He's never even bought me a box of chocolates or a bunch of flowers.
I am serioulsy depressed over this, which isn't good for the baby. I love him so much, but hate that he puts his son, a holiday abroad, his wii and computer over me and our unborn child.
How do I get him to want me again???
I also forgot that he's always ogled girls when with me, but lately I noticed him checking out guys, he told me he had sex with a guy when he was young, but he was drunk and thinks the guy raped him, but he is very keen on anal, both giving and receiving??