My hubby doesnt like lingere, so what should I do?

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My husband doesnt like lingere, so how can I spice things up? He says that if a girl doesnt some to bed naked then she doesnt really want it..... I am so tired of the same things. I am always on top (when were having sex) because thats what he wants. What are some good positions to try. Oh and I have never had an orgams either is there a secret to that... Wel both waited till our wedding night and neither of us has had sex before. so what can I do?
 
You need to have him perform oral sex on you and maybe get you a vibrater if you have not had an orgasim. I would explain when you wear something sexy it is for him to happily take it off. There are all kinds of positions to try so I would maybe get a book and you can see all of them. Talk to him and let him know you need more than just what your getting. Once you have an orgasim things will change and he will have to change. If he cant make you have one then you can.
 
Sounds like you married an asexual loser.If you REALLY want to have an orgasm, go find someone else to screw.
 
Tell his a** to stop being lazy and please you....that's one thing you can tell him. Here's what you do, get you one of those cat woman suits and a whip....tell him mommy doesn't want to play nice (seriously, you have to freak him out so he won't have time to object lol). Then perform oral on him but make sure he doesn't cum because you need for him to want it so bad that he doesn't care how he gets it. Then tell him what you want......you want it doggy style, sidewayz...his head between your legs for a change. Girl, take charge!!!!!!
 
i have been married 3 times and all of my wives never had a orgasms until i gave them oral sex. That seems to do the trick. As for lingerie for me there is nothing on earth more sexy the a garter bet with stockings better if they are black, and no panties.
 
Most women do not have orgasms from intercourse only, whether on top or otherwise. You need to engage in some manual foreplay with each other. If he gets it right, you will orgasm. He should want that.The lingerie might not be his cup of tea. You like to wear it, and he should get into pleasing you. Sex should be as much about pleasing the other person as getting your own pleasure.
 
find a sex toy party specialist and have a party. you may get some good ideas. you can go to http://www.slumberparties.com/ and schedule a party or just get a catalog. the parties are really fun! good luck
 
not sure what to tell you about the lingere situation. with the other for one you need to have a little private time with yourself to get the orgasam thing down. like anything else you should practice. if you want to try other positions just tell him assertivley (sp?) he should like that, or you could try watching some adult movies together. maybe a little role playing??
 
Have you tried talking to him about the issue? Let him know how you feel about this. Tell him that just because you don't come to bed naked doesn't mean you don't want it. Tell him that lingere makes you FEEL sexy and that is important. Let him know what you want out of sex and maybe go to a sex shop together. It seems so wrong that you almost have to make it fun to make it through the store...but it will give you guys some ideas about what is out there and maybe open his mind to a little more. Oh...and FYI...my favorite positions to get there is him on top with my legs over his shoulders....so If you can master that one....I think you both may like it. Either way, play with positions until you figure out what you like.
 
Well it always been a Challenge for women to master the art of orgasm.You have to try many things to find out what tickle your fancy.Foreplay and oral works for women and get some good quality porn for tips...Also tell him to do you doggy style it is quite pleasurable for both..And he has to last long a good long one has god outcome for women..You have to work with your muscles too down there which is also and added for him..GOOD LUCK
 
beginning sexual intercourse will depend on your partner's choices, and, yes, I see you are trying and doing what your partners expect, and that's good, because he has NO excuse to say he's not satisfied.The first thing you might want to know if why you always en up un top. This position is usually used to start penetration. We men prefer it sometime because last longer, we can endure more time without ejaculating. Another reason is that, women tend to reach climax faster in this position. Another reason just might be that you have a lazy partner. You know him better then himself, so, that's up to you to judge.I just might guess that if he is the lazy type, he wants to make you come, and get to sleep or watch Tv. Or, another reason, and a very significant one, is, that this will be the position preferred by someone who feel insecure to preform adequately during sexual intercourse and wants to take a way that he feels sure will get him to destination climax. One again, you might be able to answer that question for your self. And, finally, another reason might be all the above mentioned reasons.Other good positions that we men love: doggy and variations of doggy.If you want to encourage your partner to take the initiative to sex and, to want it more and more, just make him feel he's a great lover. If he likes it naked, please him,but during sex just tell him he's the man, he does it the way you like it, that he's huge, that you want him, that he's your daddy! build him up, talk dirty to him. He's trying to tell you "Love it when a woman shows she wants it..." so, show it, and then see if he responds... If he doesn't respond, then, HE is the problem, not you nor your lingerie.I wish you all the best, come back and tell us how it went.....
 
You always use the same position, it never results in orgasm for you, and your husband is not interested in trying something that might make things better for both of you.Question # 1)Why did you marry this boring selfish pig?and Question # 2)Do you have a sister?
 
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