this? 'happyyy birthdayy teddybear " last night when I spent the night at his place i told him he was like a big rusian teddybear and he laughed. He texted me at midnight on my 21st a couple weeks ago, so Im going to return the favor tonight. He was kind of dunk last night when we had sex for the first time together, but then we did it 3 more times this morning when he wasnt drunk. He asked 'do you think youre going to be attached now? Some girls do get attached after sex' and I said "no i think ill be okay, do you think youll be attached? Most guys arent that way" and he said, "but some guys do" and I dont know if he was just saying some guys do or that he might be?? I know a lot of the time sex changes a lot of things, we discussed before hand how i was worried things would change for the worse for us and of course he said no dont worry. But still, guys can be like that after they realized what happened.