Necropolis
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Alright... heres how the story goes.
Me and my girlfriend, her best friend (which is also my best friend, shes known him longer though) and a couple other people all went to the mall to hang out and just be together. So its like any other typical day at the mall really, me and my girl friend have only been dating for about a month and 2 weeks. So being the way i am i tryed to kiss her. She didnt want to so after trying 3 times i backed off a bit. So the night goes on, everything is fine. We go back to my house (all of us) and we watch the movie "I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell" and she passes out on the couch. now the sleeping arrangements were, girls downstairs, boys up. So me and my girlfriends best friend go upstairs, after a long day we were both dead tired so i gave him blanket, pillow, whatever and we both went to sleep, didnt talk or anything cuz we were just so tired. We all wake up the next morning, my girlfriend leaves around 12ish maybe 12:30. Mine and my girl friends best friend leaves at about 1, i walk him home cuz he lives only a 2 blocks down while my girl friend takes a half hour drive to get to. So he goes home and im just hanging with the people left. They all leave around 5ish. So later that night im watching Lifetime cuz im a looser and i wanted to watch some chick flicks. I'm on the computer as well, so i decided to tell my girl friend this problem i had always had in the past about how when i was a kid i grew up bad and i never really had anyone to stay by me or hold me when i was sad or depressed and at the end of it all she said "I think theres one word to sum everything you just said up." so i said "what is it?" and she said "Ryan" (name of out best friend) and then she signed off. Not having any idea what she meant i blew it off. Couple days later my friends start becoming very distant especially Ryan and no one had been talking to me much at all. So i blew that off to thinking they just werent having a good day or something along those lines. So i watch more chick flicks cuz i was starting to get depressed and i usually watch romance movies when im depressed. I know pathetic. So then i hear from Ryan that my girl friend told him that shes pissed at me cuz i only started dateing her to impress him. My mind blanked for a moment and thought about that. I laughed. I was thinking to myself (im bi, Ryan is straight) "what would make her think that?" And i had NEVER and i mean NEVER thought of Ryan as anymore than just a friend, a good friend, that i would joke around with and be with. So when i heard this i didnt really take it seriously until i started to realize my girl friend really thought this. Her explanation for it all was that when we were at the mall and i was trying to kiss her Ryan had always been there. In my mind im thinking, "Of course Ryan was there, i invited him to come along, where else would he be?" So then she stopped talking to me for a few days, and if she answered me it was always just a "Yeah" or "Ok" so i started to worry a bit because its only been a month and 2 weeks and well, i didnt think i had messed up just yet. So then today im in school (she goes to a diffrent school than me, Ryan is in my school) and she text me saying "Hi" so i reply "Hey" and she says "Would you do me a favor?" and i say "Sure." she says "Never talk to me again." and i said "Fine." so.... we havnt talked since. All my friends tell me it will blow over but i feel like im not only loosing my girl friend but my best friend cuz i had known her for almost a year prior, and Ryan is drifting away and his girl friend and i had been friends since the 6th grade and now she wont talk to me at all. Everyone around me says it will blow over but i really dont think it will. Everything feels like its going down hill and i cant even talk to her about any of it. I really dont know what to do and any advice would really help.
Thank you for listening to my little... (not really) Story XD
Me and my girlfriend, her best friend (which is also my best friend, shes known him longer though) and a couple other people all went to the mall to hang out and just be together. So its like any other typical day at the mall really, me and my girl friend have only been dating for about a month and 2 weeks. So being the way i am i tryed to kiss her. She didnt want to so after trying 3 times i backed off a bit. So the night goes on, everything is fine. We go back to my house (all of us) and we watch the movie "I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell" and she passes out on the couch. now the sleeping arrangements were, girls downstairs, boys up. So me and my girlfriends best friend go upstairs, after a long day we were both dead tired so i gave him blanket, pillow, whatever and we both went to sleep, didnt talk or anything cuz we were just so tired. We all wake up the next morning, my girlfriend leaves around 12ish maybe 12:30. Mine and my girl friends best friend leaves at about 1, i walk him home cuz he lives only a 2 blocks down while my girl friend takes a half hour drive to get to. So he goes home and im just hanging with the people left. They all leave around 5ish. So later that night im watching Lifetime cuz im a looser and i wanted to watch some chick flicks. I'm on the computer as well, so i decided to tell my girl friend this problem i had always had in the past about how when i was a kid i grew up bad and i never really had anyone to stay by me or hold me when i was sad or depressed and at the end of it all she said "I think theres one word to sum everything you just said up." so i said "what is it?" and she said "Ryan" (name of out best friend) and then she signed off. Not having any idea what she meant i blew it off. Couple days later my friends start becoming very distant especially Ryan and no one had been talking to me much at all. So i blew that off to thinking they just werent having a good day or something along those lines. So i watch more chick flicks cuz i was starting to get depressed and i usually watch romance movies when im depressed. I know pathetic. So then i hear from Ryan that my girl friend told him that shes pissed at me cuz i only started dateing her to impress him. My mind blanked for a moment and thought about that. I laughed. I was thinking to myself (im bi, Ryan is straight) "what would make her think that?" And i had NEVER and i mean NEVER thought of Ryan as anymore than just a friend, a good friend, that i would joke around with and be with. So when i heard this i didnt really take it seriously until i started to realize my girl friend really thought this. Her explanation for it all was that when we were at the mall and i was trying to kiss her Ryan had always been there. In my mind im thinking, "Of course Ryan was there, i invited him to come along, where else would he be?" So then she stopped talking to me for a few days, and if she answered me it was always just a "Yeah" or "Ok" so i started to worry a bit because its only been a month and 2 weeks and well, i didnt think i had messed up just yet. So then today im in school (she goes to a diffrent school than me, Ryan is in my school) and she text me saying "Hi" so i reply "Hey" and she says "Would you do me a favor?" and i say "Sure." she says "Never talk to me again." and i said "Fine." so.... we havnt talked since. All my friends tell me it will blow over but i feel like im not only loosing my girl friend but my best friend cuz i had known her for almost a year prior, and Ryan is drifting away and his girl friend and i had been friends since the 6th grade and now she wont talk to me at all. Everyone around me says it will blow over but i really dont think it will. Everything feels like its going down hill and i cant even talk to her about any of it. I really dont know what to do and any advice would really help.
Thank you for listening to my little... (not really) Story XD