my girlfriend wants to save sex untill we've been going out longer?

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i have a huge sex drive and so am used to lots of sex but my girlfriend said that she wanted to wait to have sex with me, i'd hate to pressure her into somthing she dont wanna do, but she also says if i really want it she will give it to me, i wanna respect her but i feel like i need sex.
she also really loves it when we have text sex, it get her really hot and she says stuff like she wants to blow me and she needs me inside of her, is she just saying this to make me hot or does she mean it?!?! i want sex but i want her to be comfortable about it please help i dnt no wot to do... :( how long should i wait for sex and what other stuff can we do in its sted??
did i menchion that she is just as experienced as me, if not more and that i would do anything for her sexual or otherwise
 
Take Things Very Slowly. Text Sex Is No Where Near The Same As Real Sex. She May Feel That Because Other Women Have Given You Sex, She Has To Do The Same To Keep You. Suggest Going Out For A Meal Or Snuggling With A Movie And Takeaway Combo And Show Her That You Love Her For Her, Not For Her Body. She May Feel That Sex Is All You Want, So By Doing This It Helps Her To Put Faith Into The Relationship. Wait For Her. By Doing This It Shows You Are Serious About Her, Not Just Trying To Get Her Into Bed. When The Time Happens, Take Things Very Slowly. And Before You Move On To The Next Stage Check She Is Comfortable With It First. Don't Just Assume That Just Because She Is Happy With A Bit Of Touching Doesn't Mean She's Happy For Oral Sex Or More.
 
Honestly Bro, hold off on sex until she's comfortable. it will make all the better, she'll know that your not with here for that one reason. and you'll know she's a keeper if she doesn't jump to it as soon as you got with her. All sex does is complicate things, Rub one out til' she's ready... Hope this helps
 
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