Ive been dating my current girlfriend for nearly 3 years. I can honestly say that I love and care for her. There are few things I would honestly change about her except for this. At the beginning of our relationship the sex was amazing. She would do it anytime anywhere, she would try new things AND I'd like to point out she actually did ORAL. Now its barely anything. When we have sex it feels like I am pushing her into it to get her to do it about once a week if that. She barely tries and genuinely doesn't care. She claimed in the beginning our of relationship she was only doing it to impress me and get me to like her more. I love her but I cant take much more of this. She also refuses to get on birth control or buy condoms/lube once in a while (basically show interest in doing it more). I don't feel comfortable saying this because of her privacy but I think its relevant; we are unable to have sex without lube.
What do I do? I love this girl but this problem is ruining this relationship. It can only be ignored for so long. It is literally all we ever fight about.
What do I do? I love this girl but this problem is ruining this relationship. It can only be ignored for so long. It is literally all we ever fight about.