We are both 20 and very sexually active, but the one problem is that she says that I make her sore when we are having sex. She even says that sometimes it stings! My penis is on the large side (girth wise) she cannot get her hands around my penis when she is holding it when erect, it is pretty wide! and I think the width is the main problem, because it stretches her so much. What should we do to make it easier for her? usually we just have sex, straight after foreplay. we usually spend about 15 mins on foreplay before moving on to intercourse. Any advice would be grateful.