I've been with my 20 year old girlfriend for a year and a half (I'm 21). In this time, my girlfriend has always INTENSELY disliked me asking her any form of question at all. Whether the question relates to her life, her interests, what she's up to, what's happening in her life, asking her opinion on something etc. She also intensely dislikes any form of conversation about her life or anything which she must give an opinion or just talk at length. Even if it's just getting to know her.
To get around this, I always work with her to keep the conversation on me and my life or talk about mutual interests or things which I've seen or experienced. She will ask me how my day was and what I got up to and then leave it at that. It's then up to me to attempt to communicate with her with all these restrictions. She's like a ticking time bomb and always becomes extremely moody, agitated, violent and even patronizing over the slightest conversation.
Why might my girlfriend be like this? Are there a lot of women who are like this?
How can I deal with this better?
To get around this, I always work with her to keep the conversation on me and my life or talk about mutual interests or things which I've seen or experienced. She will ask me how my day was and what I got up to and then leave it at that. It's then up to me to attempt to communicate with her with all these restrictions. She's like a ticking time bomb and always becomes extremely moody, agitated, violent and even patronizing over the slightest conversation.
Why might my girlfriend be like this? Are there a lot of women who are like this?
How can I deal with this better?