affectionate. Can i change this? We've been dating for almost 3 months, and i'm very much in love with her. I know that she loves me, but she isn't in love with me. I can tell that this frustrates her, and it frustrates me too, but i was hoping she would grow to be in love with me over time.
When we first started dating she was a lot more affectionate than she is now, but she has sort of migrated away from that. She says that when we are affectionate, it just doesn't feel right to her.
What are some reasons for this?
can i do anything to change that?
Everywhere i read says that a person can't help that. I think however, that a persons mind is a LOT more powerful than they realize, and they can change anything they want, if they know how to properly do it, and they are willing.
She says she loves me, and she wants to keep trying to make this work, and I'm not ready to give up on this yet at all either, so i was wondering if there was a way i could make the affection feel right.
On a final note, I'm much older than she is, and she says that she may be worried about the affection because she is maybe subconsciously worried that i'll want sex (I don't, and i wont. I honestly could care less about sex). Could this be the problem? if this is the problem, how do i help her correct it?
thank you for your time.
