...ex is not well. What do i do? Basically my baby's mum hasn't been well lately and so i have been going over to see her, make sure she's ok etc. But my girlfriend doesn't like the idea at all of me going to see her, but i don't know why because she knows that she's the mother of my child, so i have to go see her. She thinks i spend too much time with my ex when i go over there, but i don't really. My ex doesn't have a whole lot of family and i heard from her friend's that she wasn't well, so i went over to see her because i was concerned. My current girlfriend doesn't seem to realise that me and my ex were together for over 3 years, and that i'm not just going to be heartless and not feel anything for her. Me and my ex shared a bit of a moment the other night when i apologized to her for cheating just after she gave birth (that's why we split) and i told her i was always there for her if she needs me, then we kissed each other for a couple seconds until i realised what i was doing. My current girlfriend is acting really bitchy and selfish about the whole situation, but she doesn't seem to realise that i need to go and check on my ex when she is ill like this.