We are both 23. We had an argument earlier today so I went out for a little while to cool off. Anyway, she's now threatening to dump me since I got a few lap dances from some of the girls this nude strip club near us here in Dallas. Just because I lost it and blew my load in my boxers from one of the strippers she is threatening to leave me now. It was only one time and my girlfriend is claiming I cheated on her. I only blew it one time, and I came clean with her about it. How can she say I cheated on her just from a lap dance. I mean yeah, I got hard from the dances, but its not like I slept with the strippers. But how is that cheating? Isn't my girlfriend over reacting a little.