My girlfriend is doing ball room dancing with a guy for grad.?

[William C]

My girlfriend who i care for very much has this big thing for grad. they are doing ball room dancing and she is dancing with a guy that use to like her and hates me. I try to be nice to him and all but there has been times i have been out and he has said some mean things which i dont appreciate. My girlfriend never even really said anything about it. I know she loves me but i wish she would just show me. I was talking to her the other night about how i would never dance with anyone else only her. I even went into the whole anthropological view( since i am studying that) on dance. I am only her bf and we are only promise. But i tell her all the time my promise is on my heart. Rings only seal the deal but i put no faith in them. Well i told her how i felt about it. She don;t even talk to me the same. I just wanted to let her know. I couldn;t lie to her i have tried to cover up things like this before that bothered me. But it seems like i shouldn't even bother because no matter if i am just out with it or explain it it never works. I guess its something not to be really bothered with. But she is doing dance lessons with this guy. She told me that she loves me but she is still doing it cause she don't want to let them down. She is always trying to not let people down. But she always lets me down i try and tell her it don;t bother me but it do so much. But i need this girl and i can't hurt her no more. She is teh most amazing and special girl i ever meant. I dunno what to do or say. This guy who is her friend i have seen her kiss him on the cheek once like it was nothing and he use to always take her driving in his car alone. I trust her with all my heart. But i would not do that to her not ever. I try to treat her right. Like if i went dancing with someone she wouldn't appreciate it. So i have no idera what to do to mend this. there is just so much stuff and i try to tell her and i am the horrible person. I know i am but i wish she could just listen to me before she goes telling me all these things and breaking my heart over again. then she asks me if she ruined anything. I lovee herr but i dunno how much longer i can hold on because this is one of many problems. her freinds don't like me neither do her parents but she goes all out to satisfy them and i only get to see her a couple times a week sometimes and stuff. I just wish i could explain to her how i feel instead of getting a guilt trip each time. She told me she is going dancing with this guy wether i like it or not. So i really have no choice. I told her if thats what makes her happy then do it i want her to be happy. Then she says well i am not happy. I dunno i am so confused. Can anyone help me pleaseeeeee

i want to be the one to learn ball room dancing with her
Thanks