...re-collect and sort herself out? Please, please take the time to read and answer, please, I need help......
I'm 17 and in a long-distance relationship with a girl from England who I've been with for 2 months and three weeks, I've known her just a few days longer than that. Keep in mind we have never met physically and were planning on that one day when we could both arrange to.
We were talking on Skype not too long ago, and we got into a big argument because we'd planned on doing something special that night but she didn't want to. I made the mistake of pressuring her again, and I asked her why she wouldn't, and she insisted she wasn't going to tell me. We ended up in a huge argument and she mentioned that she was sick of being pressured by me to tell me stuff about her, I argued back saying that when we were in love to the point that we both were, we should be able to tell each other anything and not keep anything from each other. She said she had a right to her privacy, but I told her some things become the business of both of us when we're both involved and that I had a right to know....anywho....I ended up heavily in tears crying and she went all quiet, I think she was crying too, but she didn't want her grandmother to know anything was wrong. She told me goodnight not long after and she'd talk to me when she was next online.
The Next Morning, I talked to her and told her I still loved her, no matter what, she said she still loved me too, but we weren't working out, she said she needs a break from relationships, and she needed time to sort herself out and re-collect herself. We talked later on for a good while...and she assured me that we were still together, we're just on break, and she needs time to herself....I was apparently smothering her...
I asked if we could still causally talk, she said sure...
She basically ignored me the whole day after that...and admitted to it when I asked her if she was...and the next day at school, she had a really bad day....a REALLY bad day...and when she got home I told her on her Facebook that I was here if she needed me, and she said, "Well I don't need you"...and this morning she said on facebook that her life coudn' get much worse and she should say goodbye now....I told her on comments, "Don't you Dare Say Goodbye, Don't you dare, I couldn't take it if anything happens to you"....she said "I thought you was staying away" and "why can't you just leave me alone?"
I replied, "You said we could still talk.... Because I still love you and the thought of you not coming back terrifies me, it truly does...and I can't live with the fact you no longer love me...I'm stupid for not backing off I guess...I had no idea that I was smothering you...you were my whole day...I still spend my whole day thinking about you...so it's hard not to try to offer some type of support when I see you're in pain...that's why it's hard for me to back off, because I still care for you, I still love you...
she said the unthinkable for me.... "i don't. I have enough going on to put up with you"
Is it me or did she just say she didn't love me anymore???
I'm so confused, I just want her back...I can't live without her, it hurts too bad to stay away, and it's impossible for me to say goodbye, my heart won't let me, it loves her entirely too much to just let her go over an argument...I love her way too much for that, I need help, please....
If I could, based on your own opinions, can someone answer these questions in specific?
What should I do? In your opinion
Does she still love me, but she's just hiding it because she's angry with me, or does she really not love me anymore?
Any other advice you can give...
Please, My heart is hurting and aching, it's killing me and I literally don't know how much more I can emotionally or physically take, my heartbreak is too much for me to handle....I can't take the hurt, is there any hope for me left at all? I truly and honestly love her more than anything in the world, I love her more than my own life and I literally would give mine for her, I truly would...
P.S....once in the past we broke up for about one hour before we made up and got back together, it was over a bad argument, one worse than this one....during that time, that one hour we were broken up, she quickly changed her Facebook relationship status to: 'single' and she did the same on this chat client we used called IMVU....but this time, last night, I asked her if we were still together, she said she didn't know and to be honest she didn't care at the moment...However, her relationship statuses are the same on both Facebook and IMVU....is this a small glimmer of hope that she is still holding on, just angry with me, or should I assume she just forgot about changing her status?
I'm 17 and in a long-distance relationship with a girl from England who I've been with for 2 months and three weeks, I've known her just a few days longer than that. Keep in mind we have never met physically and were planning on that one day when we could both arrange to.
We were talking on Skype not too long ago, and we got into a big argument because we'd planned on doing something special that night but she didn't want to. I made the mistake of pressuring her again, and I asked her why she wouldn't, and she insisted she wasn't going to tell me. We ended up in a huge argument and she mentioned that she was sick of being pressured by me to tell me stuff about her, I argued back saying that when we were in love to the point that we both were, we should be able to tell each other anything and not keep anything from each other. She said she had a right to her privacy, but I told her some things become the business of both of us when we're both involved and that I had a right to know....anywho....I ended up heavily in tears crying and she went all quiet, I think she was crying too, but she didn't want her grandmother to know anything was wrong. She told me goodnight not long after and she'd talk to me when she was next online.
The Next Morning, I talked to her and told her I still loved her, no matter what, she said she still loved me too, but we weren't working out, she said she needs a break from relationships, and she needed time to sort herself out and re-collect herself. We talked later on for a good while...and she assured me that we were still together, we're just on break, and she needs time to herself....I was apparently smothering her...
I asked if we could still causally talk, she said sure...
She basically ignored me the whole day after that...and admitted to it when I asked her if she was...and the next day at school, she had a really bad day....a REALLY bad day...and when she got home I told her on her Facebook that I was here if she needed me, and she said, "Well I don't need you"...and this morning she said on facebook that her life coudn' get much worse and she should say goodbye now....I told her on comments, "Don't you Dare Say Goodbye, Don't you dare, I couldn't take it if anything happens to you"....she said "I thought you was staying away" and "why can't you just leave me alone?"
I replied, "You said we could still talk.... Because I still love you and the thought of you not coming back terrifies me, it truly does...and I can't live with the fact you no longer love me...I'm stupid for not backing off I guess...I had no idea that I was smothering you...you were my whole day...I still spend my whole day thinking about you...so it's hard not to try to offer some type of support when I see you're in pain...that's why it's hard for me to back off, because I still care for you, I still love you...
she said the unthinkable for me.... "i don't. I have enough going on to put up with you"
Is it me or did she just say she didn't love me anymore???
I'm so confused, I just want her back...I can't live without her, it hurts too bad to stay away, and it's impossible for me to say goodbye, my heart won't let me, it loves her entirely too much to just let her go over an argument...I love her way too much for that, I need help, please....
If I could, based on your own opinions, can someone answer these questions in specific?
What should I do? In your opinion
Does she still love me, but she's just hiding it because she's angry with me, or does she really not love me anymore?
Any other advice you can give...
Please, My heart is hurting and aching, it's killing me and I literally don't know how much more I can emotionally or physically take, my heartbreak is too much for me to handle....I can't take the hurt, is there any hope for me left at all? I truly and honestly love her more than anything in the world, I love her more than my own life and I literally would give mine for her, I truly would...
P.S....once in the past we broke up for about one hour before we made up and got back together, it was over a bad argument, one worse than this one....during that time, that one hour we were broken up, she quickly changed her Facebook relationship status to: 'single' and she did the same on this chat client we used called IMVU....but this time, last night, I asked her if we were still together, she said she didn't know and to be honest she didn't care at the moment...However, her relationship statuses are the same on both Facebook and IMVU....is this a small glimmer of hope that she is still holding on, just angry with me, or should I assume she just forgot about changing her status?