My girlfriend loves anime in fact that's one of the reasons why we became friends and why i like her but i can never get her to talk about anything else i try to ask her more about her family and things going on with her or what her opinion is on stuff (in fact i think I've been an ideal boyfriend) but every time i ask she tries changing the subject back to anime I'll even work my way slowly into it and yet she still changes the subject now even once in a while I'm fine with it but i don't watch a lot of the same anime as she does we probably only watch 6 of the same out of like 30 others. Now i really want to try and talk to her but every time i do i go back to my shell that I'm usually in i don't know what to do i want to talk to her about things that are going on in my life but because i can't get her to talk to me I'm not sure if she can relate. she does talk sometimes, but for the most part it's anime.
A big problem as well are my girlfriends friends. for example my girlfriend and i where planing to go to an anime convention that we had planed to go to together last year but only she went ... for reasons. we are planing to cosplay together as anime characters from are favorite anime's and her friends that are going to know this and yet they talk to her about for EX: "hey you should go as lelouche and i should go as suzaku. now this makes me kind of mad because I'll even be right in front of them talking to my girlfriend when they do this and I'll be right about to go see my girlfriend in school and then one of her friends will latch onto her and say "she's mine." or get her to hug them before i even say hi and say " ha she hugged me first" and just stuff like that it ticks me off they'll say "I'm the most important person" or " she loves me more" i just don't get it i know they don't hate me I've been friends with some of them for 2 years. Recently i was hugging her and like 6 of her friends basically rip her out of my hands and just surround her again saying "she's mine" to the point where it's like little kids fighting over a toy it's ridicules and something that happened last week it was a fire drill so i go to find my girlfriend so we are walking to the football field i was holding her hand like i always do when one of her more annoying friends come up and grabs her opposite hand now ok im fine with that its only a minute later when i get mad her friend says something i can't remember and i barely heard it so i replied with no or yes i can't even remember and then she said see he is leaving you ok im furious at that point so i aggressively let go of my girlfriends hand and just start slowing down and falling back into the crowd. the worst part about it is that my girlfriend didn't even say anything to her friend the only action she did was she let go of her friends hand and went to glomp hug me then got really close to me and grabbed my hand. (still mad at that point but getting out of it) i just don't know what to do she doesn't defend me from her friends and its not like i can tell her friends to go f off that would put some ridges in our relationship besides it's not like they ever take me seriously any ways What should i do?
oh and I am happy in my relationship... sorry if this is confusing
A big problem as well are my girlfriends friends. for example my girlfriend and i where planing to go to an anime convention that we had planed to go to together last year but only she went ... for reasons. we are planing to cosplay together as anime characters from are favorite anime's and her friends that are going to know this and yet they talk to her about for EX: "hey you should go as lelouche and i should go as suzaku. now this makes me kind of mad because I'll even be right in front of them talking to my girlfriend when they do this and I'll be right about to go see my girlfriend in school and then one of her friends will latch onto her and say "she's mine." or get her to hug them before i even say hi and say " ha she hugged me first" and just stuff like that it ticks me off they'll say "I'm the most important person" or " she loves me more" i just don't get it i know they don't hate me I've been friends with some of them for 2 years. Recently i was hugging her and like 6 of her friends basically rip her out of my hands and just surround her again saying "she's mine" to the point where it's like little kids fighting over a toy it's ridicules and something that happened last week it was a fire drill so i go to find my girlfriend so we are walking to the football field i was holding her hand like i always do when one of her more annoying friends come up and grabs her opposite hand now ok im fine with that its only a minute later when i get mad her friend says something i can't remember and i barely heard it so i replied with no or yes i can't even remember and then she said see he is leaving you ok im furious at that point so i aggressively let go of my girlfriends hand and just start slowing down and falling back into the crowd. the worst part about it is that my girlfriend didn't even say anything to her friend the only action she did was she let go of her friends hand and went to glomp hug me then got really close to me and grabbed my hand. (still mad at that point but getting out of it) i just don't know what to do she doesn't defend me from her friends and its not like i can tell her friends to go f off that would put some ridges in our relationship besides it's not like they ever take me seriously any ways What should i do?
oh and I am happy in my relationship... sorry if this is confusing