My girl friend had sex before we were officially together?

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Should it bother me (It does a lot) that my girl friend lost her virginity while we were seeing each other? We were both virgins, we tried to have sex, but i was nervous and drunk and couldnt get hard. the a couple days later she had sex with a random. the day after that she wanted to be officially in a relationship with me. we have been together now for 4 months and this event still bothers the hell out of me, and she doesnt see what the big deal is. Should i be bothered so much?
 
This is why you wait until you are in a serious relationship before pulling your pants down.
 
She is not worth your efforts, she will take it wherever she can get it. Set some standards!
 
yeah, you've got a case on that. But what do you want her to do about it now? Feel sorry I guess. But what you've got to do now is decide if that's going to change whether you want to be with her.
 
LOL...sounds like she was pretty serious about your future relationship. I would be pissed, too.
 
if i was a guy.. it would bother me too. yall were pretty much together because yall were considered "together". your not wrong for being bothered about this. how would she like it if you were in her shoes.? she wouldnt.
 
It'd bother me, enough to dump her. She probably has other guys lined up already if you don't work out
 
Well I don't understand why a virgin who was kind of seeing someone would go out and just lose her virginity to some stranger. There is probably more to her story. I think it was kind of slutty, but if you really care about her you are going to have to move on and get over it. Maybe she wanted to hurry up and get it over with so she would feel more confident when she was with you.
 
uhhh yeah definetly shouldnt trust the ho.. If she wanted to be in a relationship with you she wouldnt be srewing other guys. ur dumb for even still being with her kick her ass to the curb there are so many other girls out there for u that will love u for who u are!! and will be worth losing ur virginity to!! oh and for next time there's viagra =]
 
Wow!!

I am sorry that she was so anxious to 'Lose it' to someone else. You really would have to do some soul searching. Like when you eventually do 'do it', she then has a gauge to put you on. Might be awkward.
 
psh yeah you should def be bothered. were you just hooking up at first? and doesnt she regret what she s done? :\
 
yea. Even if you were not officially together...you were trying to have sex with her. And it seems like she just got too ansy and didn't want to wait for you. If she really liked you...she would have had sex with YOU...not some random person. That's pretty shady.
 
So you weren't her first--what is the big deal? Get over it or break is off with her.
 
Yes you should be bothered. Im not talking trash about your girl but its plain to see that shes a whore. Wow, thats just skanky. Apparently shes got others guys on her mind. If I was you i'd break it off.
 
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