So my gf and I are sexually active and shes had sex with one other guy (her ex) before me. We've had sex together but now after going to a study at her church she says she wants to "wait until she is married". She tells me I have to respect her decision but I just don't get it. I mean I told her I will accept your decision...its not like I can force you or anything....but I figured since we are in love we should have sex since sex is part of a healthy relationship. I also told her the reason why people wait is because they are virgins so it makes it more special but since we aren't special then why do we have to wait? Her only response is "I want to wait till im married." Does anyone have any advice on this? What should I do? Do I have a good argument to go against her case? I know I can't force her to do anything with me and I've told her how I feel about this dumb decision so Im out of ideas.
My gf just decided to not have sex anymore...need some advice.?
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