Ill be honest, the bedroom scene has definitely declined in the past year or so. We've been together about 3 years now, and live together. I think the problem is that I am too available. I always answer her texts right away, and hardly say no to a request she has. She says she loves me, and we plan on getting married, but how do I get the intimacy back? Should I make myself less available, such as not answering right away, playing golf with friends occasionally instead of spending an afternoon with her? Any suggestions?? Thanks!