My future mother in law says she will help out but so far isnt...?

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Ok so my fiance and i just set our date within the past few weeks.. His mother has said that financially she will help out, but when we ask for some sort of budget she avoids totally! My mother has told how much she will put into it, and i know how much my fiance and I can put into it. So how do i bring this up to her to where she cant avoid it..

My thoughts are if she cant put money into it.. thats fine, it wont hurt my feelings... But if she can't i dont think she should have input on it.. Does anybody else agree?? I just want to do the right thing here...


***also when you get and officiant to marry you, and they only accept a donation as they're payment how much have you paid to them, or what is a good price??
 
Let her get away with not paying anything.

At the wedding have the person announce THANKS TO THE BRIDES MOM FOR CONTRIBUTING SO MUCH MONEY LALALA INTO THIS. and then give no thanks to her. hahaha (;
 
It is your wedding, you pay up or tighten your budget. Maybe it was just talk and did not have the means to give you anything.
 
Let her off the hook.No need to appeoach on the subject again. Plan the wedding without counting on any financial support from her. If she gives you money later, it's a bonus.
 
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