My friend and her boyfriend tried to have sex but...?

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He could not get it in. Any ideas or sugestions that i can tell her?? i have never had that problem before so i really don't know what to tell her. Any tricks?? :)
 
If both of you have " little experience" use a prelubricated condom ( or even add some extra KY) to avoid the unexpected orgasm ( prematured ejaculation) and avoid unwanted pregnancy. You both know what the problem was, NOW, try again and like Coca Cola's motto says " ENJOY!".
 
Sadly more info is needed on the nature of the problem. Why was he unable to "get it in?" Was it a size issue, him being too big or too small to fit (or likewise, she being too big or small)? Was he having trouble maintaining an erection? Was it just simple anxiety about the thought of putting it in?

I will watch this question to see if you add any info, but sadly there's nothing anyone can say with what you have provided.
 
needs to wet in order for it to go in. KY jeely or he goes down or her but either way has to be slick enough for it to happen.
 
its really common, it happens to a lot of people first time the try.

he needs to be fully hard and she needs to be very wet, and most people go for penetration too soon because they don't realise this, and/or feel to nervous or excited or under pressure to get fully aroused. also, once they cant get it in they feel more nervous and it makes them even less aroused.

you need to just take your time, relax and enjoy yourselves. manually or orally get eachother ready first, and have lube handy aswell, you'll probably need it.

good luck :)

p.s. some people will say hes just too big/shes just too small.its not that, a baby can come out of there! its all about lubrication. even if you tense up a little cos your nervous, if you use lube it will still fit in fine.
 
If she was nervous, her vaginal muscles could have tensed up making it difficult for him to enter. She should try to not force things until she's feeling relaxed and comfortable.
 
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