my first cousin is giving my babies father a paternity test and im so hurt i

Kay

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don't know what to do? me and my cousin were close like sisters and we never argued or anything and i am wondering y she picked me to do so wrong. in 2007 my cousin stole my federal income tax check and cashed it it took me 9 months to get my money and i still forgave her and tried to work things out cause i love my cousin like a sister but then 8 months after that my child's father gets paternity papers in the mail cause my cousin says he is the father of her 8 month old son and our daughter is 10 months old i cursed my cousin out and cried and i just ben really depressed her son do look my daughter and i let my child's father look at the pictures and he said the baby doesn't look him and he never slept with my cousin. my cousin said the reason she ask for the paternity test was because she needed to prove a point to herself and and she said she didn't sleep with my baby daddy either what point does my cousin need to prove to herself i don't know but if i didn't sleep with a man and i know it then im not gonna test that man they both are denying they ever slept with each other but i cant sleep eat or stop thinking about the fact what that they did to me and our children can possibly be brother sister and cousin i still love my baby daddy and i wanna move on but its Just so hard what should i do
 
If you don't want them to take the paternity test then you don't have to allow them. They're your kids and if you don't want them tested it is illegal to do it without your consent. Don't worry; as long as you know who the baby's father is, then it's cool. You don't need to prove anything to anyone.
If you believe that your cousins baby might be your baby's father; then don't talk to neither of them. If they both loved you they wouldn't done that to you. be happy with your piece of heaven and remember that what goes around comes around.
 
If you don't want them to take the paternity test then you don't have to allow them. They're your kids and if you don't want them tested it is illegal to do it without your consent. Don't worry; as long as you know who the baby's father is, then it's cool. You don't need to prove anything to anyone.
If you believe that your cousins baby might be your baby's father; then don't talk to neither of them. If they both loved you they wouldn't done that to you. be happy with your piece of heaven and remember that what goes around comes around.
 
Your cousin sounds like a creep. You had that clue when she stole your income tax check, but you are just too stupid to catch on.

Very possibly, she is collecting welfare and they demanded she name a guy and she picked your guy. That gets her the benefits. If they find out he is not the father, they rarely cancel benefits. However, it's interesting how you've already convicted your guy when both he and your cousin say they haven't had sex.
 
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