Bella Francesca
New member
Hi everyone!
Sooo, My fiancee recently quit his his gym membership after 14 years during his move to a new place. he's very physically fit and he still looks great! I don't care what he looks like, He knows this too becuz I tell him often, I love him anyways.... BUT.....
His sex drive went down drastically and he says it's because he stopped working out. I mean know men have insecurities just as women do, but does lack of exercise really make a "guy" not want sex as much? Is it more physical or mental? (mental meaning, he's doesn't feel his body is as toned.) I want him to feel comfortable with himself, but I honestly don't care about what he looks like!
Not everyone's the same, but can anyone relate or back up his claim? Has this ever happened to you?
Thank you!
Mark H: lol, Thanks, I'm sure your not a fat lazy slob!
My Husband Rocks: Yes I tell him he has a smoking hot body. Just last night, he took his shirt off and I told him how amazing he looks!
KLstar: Very insightful! Everything you said makes sense, his life is becoming more stressful. Thanks!
undrgrnd.. There's nothing more to it. We're very honest and open with each other and he is not stressed about the engagement, true his life took a stressful turn with his parents, but, that's all. I think his stress is getting worse when he avoids sex and the gym.
Sooo, My fiancee recently quit his his gym membership after 14 years during his move to a new place. he's very physically fit and he still looks great! I don't care what he looks like, He knows this too becuz I tell him often, I love him anyways.... BUT.....
His sex drive went down drastically and he says it's because he stopped working out. I mean know men have insecurities just as women do, but does lack of exercise really make a "guy" not want sex as much? Is it more physical or mental? (mental meaning, he's doesn't feel his body is as toned.) I want him to feel comfortable with himself, but I honestly don't care about what he looks like!
Not everyone's the same, but can anyone relate or back up his claim? Has this ever happened to you?
Thank you!
Mark H: lol, Thanks, I'm sure your not a fat lazy slob!
My Husband Rocks: Yes I tell him he has a smoking hot body. Just last night, he took his shirt off and I told him how amazing he looks!
KLstar: Very insightful! Everything you said makes sense, his life is becoming more stressful. Thanks!
undrgrnd.. There's nothing more to it. We're very honest and open with each other and he is not stressed about the engagement, true his life took a stressful turn with his parents, but, that's all. I think his stress is getting worse when he avoids sex and the gym.