...he wrote her should I leave? My fiance has a restraining order against him because of her. She always calls the police on him he is angry that he lied to her about me. They were broke up when he got together but she says he always harasses her with phone calls ETC. He's locked up now for violating the order, I told him I was going to leave him if he doesn't leaver her alone. He told me she wrote him a letter saying she loves him and is glad he's in jail so she knows he isn't sleeping with me. Then she said she would drop the order so she can come see him. He told me about it and I told him if he wrote her back I was done. I really love him and we been through so much but I had to draw a boundary. Now he told me he wrote her back begging for forgiveness and to drop the order. I am crushed. I asked him not to do that and to trust God everything would be okay. He couldn't even respect my feelings. Now I am feeling he loves her and not me. He assured me he loves me but just wants the order dropped that's ridiculous why should it matter? Am I overreacting or should I just let it go. Its bad enough he cheated and lied should I end it or is there hope it will change?
