My fiance doesnt want to dance at our wedding?

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Ok Ladies, or Gents...my Fiance doesnt like to dance to begin with, but now he doesnt want to dance at our wedding. I dont wanna "make" him, im not like that, but it would be nice if he would dance for atleast that one day, right? what should i do? should i just not worry about it, and carry on with all of the other fun dances we have planned?
 
Mine doesn't want to dance either, and thats fine by me.

The way I see it, it's OUR wedding, and I don't want to make him uncomfortable on OUR day ( i mean its his day too right? why make him do something he doesn't want to?)

Besides, maybe if you tell him it means a lot to you but you respect his choice, he might surprise you anyways, who knows. Sometimes when people get what they need, they give more too.

I'd hate to be dancing with him and know that I'd be forcing him, or knowing he's not having a good time. I can't be happy in that moment knowing he's miserable, mad or uncomfortable.
 
I disagree with Danni wholeheartedly. A marriage is about compromise, and not just in one direction.
If your husband is an introvert and doesnt like dancing, why should he have to feel uncomfortable on his wedding day. This is his day too.
 
i would be really hurt, as it is that one special day that only comes around once.

if i were you i would explain to him how important and meaningful having your first dance on your wedding night is. to me, if he knew how much it meant to you and still didnt want to do it cos he was 'shy' or just doesnt want to i would be really hurt and wonder what my life is going to be like when it comes to caring about my feelings!

you are not being over bearing or demanding, having a first dance on your wedding night is really important and special to a lot of girls and you have every right to want it from your husband!
 
You tell him that he has to get his butt out their on the dance floor to have that first slow dance with you. After that he's on his own. Because you know that their are going to be guest their that will ask him to dance. And don't forget the dollar dance. When guys pay to dance with the bride and girls pay to dance with the groom. I wouldn't worry to much he'll get in the groove. It will surprise you when your not looking.
 
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