my father in law is a thief and dishonest i don;t want him around my kids?

[Casey]

my husband and i are pregnant with our first child. my mother in law and father in law are very pushy and think that they will be watching our son when i go back to work. i don't agree with their parenting style. my husband has been in counseling for emotional issues for 4 years because of their bad parenting. when we first started dating my father in law would steal money from him and lie and he even stole from me. my in laws have let their children and household run a muck neither of them work and most of their children have not graduated school because they didn't raise them to think education was important. i do not want my child in this environment at all, frankly if it is up to me the won't be a big part of his life. my husband sees my point and knows his parents are not the best people to watch our son and that i have plenty of family in the area that we do not have to worry about finding somewhere for him to go (our schedules have a 4hr gap every day my husband is an MP in the army and i am a paramedic) my mother in law seems to believe that she has rights to my son regardless of how many ways we tell them (nicely) that they don't. my husband always feels guilty about it, it's getting out of control.