...benefits, what should I do? Well my ex girlfriend's best friend has just recently asked me if we could be friends with benefits, and have sex in 2 weeks, when her parents aren't home, with no relationship whatsoever after, just to "experiment". We're both 17 and virgins, and from what I can tell, she's been very lonely lately due to some prick ignoring her feelings towards him. I still have feelings for my ex, who broke up with me several months ago due to my feelings turning into, from what I can tell, love and she wasn't ready for that type of commitment and decided to end it.
I'm still one of my exe's close friends however, one of her best friends so she tells me. Her best friend, who wants to have sex with me, is extremely close to her, and I never considered her to ever be more than a friend, and my friends don't seem to fancy her all too much either, so I would never get into a relationship with her. But I've been thinking over her offer, and just the sex alone doesn't sound bad.
She claims she won't tell anyone about it, neither will I of course, and that we'd try to hide that we were having sex as much as possible. I do believe that no one will find out, the main thing that has been bothering me is I don't know if I should do it or not. I kinda want to, cause I've been really lonely lately myself, but I don't want to regret it. Plus she's my exes best friend, so when I'm going to be around the both of them in person, I can only imagine it being extremely awkward and I'm sure I'll feel somewhat guilty.
I know friends with benefits relationships don't usually end up working out well, but I'm considering giving it a try. Can anyone tell me if I really should or if I really shouldn't? Thanks for the replies in advance!
I've talked to her about it too for quite a few hours, and she said she really wants to and thinks it'll be good for the both of us. She doesn't want it to affect out friendship, or turn into lovers or anything, just "sex between friends" in her own words... Not sure how much this helps but I figured I'd add it anyway.