So heres all the info....I met my ex bf last year around the end of september. we hit it off quick but wound up breaking up a month later. I was crushed cuz i really liked him. We stayed friends but then became friends with "benefits"....i really never thought too much about it i just liked being near him. So that went on for a few months and then he started wanting a relationship with me but was also interested in this other girl which kind of crushed me. He started dating her and then realized she wasn't what he wanted and then started dating me again. Things started off perfect but then we would exercise and i wouldnt really want to do it and I guess i would "complain". Which was very minimal but then he started hanging out with his ex gf and i started to think that he might have feelings for her again. They would hang out all the time. So that kind of made me feel crappy and then i would "complain" all the time about that. Finally one day when he went out with her i got up the courage to see if there was something going on and i found that they were talking about a relationship and stuff like that....he says that he was just trying to get her to like him so she would get away from her bf that she was with at the time cuz he was no good. But what i found in his phone really hurt and maybe it wasnt the nicest thing to do but i had to know and that was my only way of finding out. So we wound up breaking up because of all the fighting and then went back to friends with "benefits". Now he likes to rub it in my face about all the girls he hangs out with and bla bla bla....and it hurts cuz he knows how much i like him and want to be with him even after everything.,...which i havent figured out why.....and also tonight he really made me upset...I cleaned his apartment and even did his laundry just to be nice after he took me out to mini golf and dinner the night before.....well i had to take his laundry back to my place and i live an hour away so its kind of hard sometimes to make time well today i had made plans with him that i was coming over at eleven at night to drop off his laundry and just to hang out and chill. well i went to work and i dont get service at my job...if he payed attention he would know this.....and he calls me at 10:20 after i got off work and was on my way, asking if i got any of his texts. I havent got them yet anyways cuz my phone is really late on that it took an hour after i got service.....i said no i didnt get the texts and then he proceeds to tell me that tonight wasnt going to be a good night cuz he made plans with someone else instead....i was a little ticked off cuz i did four loads of laundry folded them and put them on hangers for him and all i wanted was a little appreciation and i thought he wouldnt ditch me like that for another girl.....So i was arguing with him and first he hangs up on me...then i call him back cuz im still mad and then he says that i never said we were having plans and then i had to tell him i did and then he says that i can bitch and complain all i want to but that he texted me and that was ok and plus he made plans with this other girl because they sounded more fun than plans with me... =( that really tore me up cuz thats saying i have better plans than to hang out with you.....so i hung up on him and then drove to his house dropped off all his clothes (he wasnt there) and i avent heard from him since........sooo i am just wondering...after all that.....what you guys think?
Ok, Im sorry. That was very hard to read. I was mad and on a typing rampage.
and geez weak???? lol come on go easy on me here im already down....no need to kick me harder! lol jp
and there are more things to it, you know he has done a lot of nice things, i have pretty much focused on the bad, but do you think he will realize he's in the wrong and apologize and be nice??? That may sound naive, and frankly i dont care if it does, but I really have hope that things will turn around...but that hope is running out because of all of the stuff he has done.
