My doctor disrespected me...

blouhoender

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Hi, I had a bad experience with my GI doctor I went to him for chest discomfort, my Primary doctor thought I had acid reflux.or heartburn, I thought I had Esphogaul Spams when I eat or take pills, they feel like they are stuck in the middle of my chest it actually feels like I am choking in the millde of my chest.

Well my doctor told me it must be Anxiety, I had recently had a car accident and the airbags hit me hard in the chest.
My Doctor also told me Most people who have anxiety, have had a bad chilhood, and he blamed my chest discomfort on Child hood trauma, Child rearings..I have never been spoke to like this.
Has anyone ever had a doctor talk like this to you....
I was so very mad, I went to him for help and this is what he diagnoised me with...

I just recently had an MRI where I was diagnosied with COSTOCHODRITIS
which is causing my chest discomfort.I have fluid in my ribs...
Should I make a complaint on this doctor for the way he talked to me,
or comfront him face to face, to let him know how bad I thought he was.
I think he stepped way out of his boundry.
thanks.
MrsChen
 
he probably did, but you ALWAYS have the option of going somplace else for ongoing care. no patient should be treated and dismissed like that when they are having symptoms like you are. i do know tho that costochondritis can be very painful since my hubby had this about fifteen years ago. we thought he was actually having a heart attack just becasue of the extreme pain this was causing. but after his doc checked him out, it was found to be only costo. did he actually Rx you anything to try and rid that area of inflammation?

when any doc starts telling any patient that their symptoms are being caused by 'just' anxiety or depression or simply stress, when you KNOW better or actually have, as in your case, actual Dx MRI to back up what you are feeling, its just time to move onto another doc who simply cares. as far as making any complaints go? well, it could cause you problems down the road with other docs too, you just never know ya know? would it actually do any real good either? i doubt it. this doc is just like a ton of other docs out there who LOVE to blame the patient for their own real symptoms. unfortunetly, not alot will actually change this idiots behavior or mindset. its just time to move onto someone who cares much more than this creep.

believe me, i KNOW just how much it sucks with any doc to feel disrespected or your symptoms not taken seriously too, been there done that one before. moving onto another more caring doc really would be much more in your best interest right now. just lose this stupid doc and get a better one. blow this off to experience and try not to dwell on one docs stupid ideals about patients. it really IS better for you in the long run to just seek out much better care. take this as a learning experience. you CAN write this idiot an actual letter about why you are moving on, just to know that you DID let him know how crappy you felt you were treated by a so called 'medical professional" but i really cannot see where making this a big issue would really truely help you i the long run,ya know?

considering the mechanisim of you injury(those air bags hit with sooo much real heavy speed/velocity)it could have very easily hit other areas too(but in a more "referred' type of way?). just where was that MRI actually done with regards to your body areas? was that swallowing and other symptomology there BEFORE that airbag deployment hit you?

do YOU personally have your very own copy of that MRI or did that doc simply 'tell you" what was found? believe me it can make a huge difference as far as what you find out actually reading your own report and what some patients(espescially when any specialist is giving you results)simply are 'told' by the doc. you just NEED to obtain your own copy of your results from that MRI and read thru them yourself. just look at the very end of your report in that summary at the end? this is where any real pertinent findings by the interpreting rad are just listed. considering the mechanism of injury(again) with ANY airbag deployment, it would not be beyond the relm of possibility to also have suffered some real c spine injury/affectation as well as chest issues too. that chest area just gets slammed with alot of force that can cause the neck to become injured in a very real way. you just need to read your own report to be certain that this area was actually checked into and what is actually listed as findings.

but personally,i would just blow off this doc and move on to someone else(you just don't need to sit and dwell on this, just move on for a real Dx of your symptoms instead). you just don't need a doc like this for any real reason,ya know? but DO check into what i mentioned above. you just really DO need to know what was found and what may still need to be MRIed, if they did not actually do your c spine area too.

i do hope this helped some. unfortunetly there are just docs out there who find it much easier to blame everything(espescially with women)on anxiety(the docs are simply lazy) or depression/stress, rather than just doing what it is they are getting paid to do for their patients, actually testing and Dxing a condition/problem. just moving on will help alot. you can always, once you DO get a real Dx form an actual caring knowledgable doc, send this 'wonder doc' a copy of the real dx for him to mull over. its one way to let him know that he was lazy,and an ass too boot. i doubt it would actually change his thinking patterns, but it sure as heck would make YOU feel better, with a little note about "this is what a 'real' caring doc did for me" thanks for nuthin?

just get out from under this idiots mindset about you and your symptoms and move on hon,you just DO deserve much better care and overall treatment right now. please DO keep me posted on what you find out. good luck,and keep pushing docs til you get that real Dx. sometimes its just up to us to be our own advocate since no one is going to do this for us. been there,done that one to death myself over the years with alot of major medical problems of mine and my sons too. just get angry(at being blown off) and just DEMAND much better overall care. you DO have that right. FB
 
Hello Feelbad
thank you for writing back to me...I have switched doctors since I changed my insurance plan to a PPO plan just so I could get an MRI...My Chiroprator since late 2007 was trying to talk to my primary care doctor' on getting an MRI and the doctors told me no numerous times. MRI was done 21 months after car accident.
I did have 3 MRI test's done.

1. Costal Sternal Anterior Ribs
which they found abnormal edema at the left third and fourth rib.
and the right second, third, and fifth rib.
which they diganosied me with Costochondristis

2.Mri of the Lumbar Spine.
findings L4-L5 causing low back pain...

3. MRI of the Throracic Spine
Low T1-T2 causing mid back pain.

I do see a specialist that treats the spine and Chronic pain, I just had 3 spinal injections on March 3, 2009. I will go back for a follow up and nerve test will be conducted due to it started out just my toes burning, now both my feet burn on the bottom.

But I will never return back to those doctors who treated me so poorly, I was just upset after I got my MRI on how could that GI said what he said. I think I will have my doctor fax him the results.
My Chiroprator sent my primary care doctors that I do not see anymore and they called me finally sounded concerned. THe Medical Director called. and was very apologetic.
I told her I have found new doctors now, and at this time I will let the specialist treat me
I told her I dont think there is anything your doctors can do any thing for me.
BUt thank you so much. for writing I feel better about everything already.

I dont want to dwell on that doctor, or my primary care doctors..but they have mad so very mad when I had true pain.
thanks
MrsChen
 
they do wonders for our stress, not to mention our very real pain levels don;t they? its just finding the 'right' docs to treat your conditon or even to just Dx it that matters in the bigger picture. at least it would appear that you ARE in much more caring hands right now,and thats what REALLY matters most for you.
while it would seem they DID do the MRIs on your spine, it would appear they forgot to do to the one huge major possible area of involvement considering what occurs within that spine when airbag deployment is involved, that c spine area? this really does just need to be done as well. its just the most likely area to take the bigger hit when everything gets forced backwards during deployment. i would most definitely have this area checked soon at some point,just so you KNOW for certain what may or may not also be a possible problem. the forces involved just kind of dictate that this area be evaluated too.

i asked this above but i did not see any answer to this question? do they currently have you onat least some level of anti inflammatory for what was found with the ribs? if not,they need to,and possibly,just for short term with the biggest hit,go with even something like prednisone. it is a rather strong med, but given the level of inflammation you actually have going on there(the fluid being there tells the whole story) it really would be the best way to try and get rid of the inflammation thus the fluid too. just a suggestion. this is what they gave my hubby, just for a short term run. and it did work really well for him too. moist heat also helps.

i do wish you tons of luck with this and hope things start to get better soon for you. please keep me posted on all things,K? FB
 
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