I don't want her to be offended, even as a teenager, she used to get offended and mad and thought we were 'buying her off' , when we offered to take care of her until 18 or college, or even later. She used to say 'i want to make it on my own', shes a very independent young girl. She was on her own since 17, went to college on her own, graduated and took up a job, right now shes working in an accounting. Shes just 25, i'm not sure if she has paid off her education loan. Her father and i don't want her to take up a loan for her wedding as well. Her father and i are pretty well off and would like to sponsor or contribute their wedding, the young man(groom) is not very well off, and has just taken up a job just 18 months ago, I don't think they have saved enough for an entire wedding. Should we ask her? If so, how ?
My daughter is getting married, should we offer financial assistance?
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