My dad molested my daughter and i walked in on him i had him arrested that same...

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Melina Mason

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...day i asked my sister to ask? her daughters if he had touched them and he did she still writes him and accepts his calls i feel like my family blames me for all of this they call me and threaten me i didnt lie on my father i feel like i am stuck in the middle of my daughter and my dad does anyone know what i should do to feel at ease with all of this because my daughter is 3 yrs old and i want her to forget about this so it doesnt tramatize her because i dont think my family will let this go
 
your so call dad is were he belongs, and if your family, don,t see this, and take the side of a child abuser,, you don,t need them, its all about your little girl, my little girl was abuser by her father, she never told me until she was 30,,if only she had told me i could have saved her,,her childhood,,be glad you saved your little girl,,tell your family its him or you,, then keep a smile on your baby's face,,,
 
You did the right thing for your child, and perhaps your nieces will thank you in future too.

You don't let this go either. A culture of sexual abuse in a family should be stamped out.
 
He freaking molested you doughter!
If i were you I would stop talking to all of those who blame you, you don't need people like that in your life evennif they are labeled "family".
Your a mother, you job is to protect you doughter, if your mother docent see that, and she dosnt want to protect you, block contact.
 
This can be a very tough decision for you but it concerns your daughter!! she is more precious than anything and her health and well being is your concern!
You can chose to take your father out of the family tree as well as you sister... if your sister has accepted this disgusting thing being a mother , then she wont mind the ''situation'' of anybody.
I guess your father lives far away and thus it will be easier for you to avoid him and all the rest of the family member who thinks that child molesting is ''nothing'' Remove everyone from your family who will blame you for distancing with your so called father!!! dont keep track of them! forget them all.
Your baby can be only 3, but i suggest you take her to a child psy. She may not remember exactly but she can still has scars unconciously. i guess one day she will have to know about this whichever the way and she will ''blame'' you if you havent done anything to take this monster out of her life.
Think about your little family first because you are the mother.
 
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