My dad has been acting weird with me and I have no idea what to do?

Eleanore L

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He's been acting strange with me in the last eight months or so.

He got married to my step mum who is 27 years old, he's 40 and I'm 19. He didn't even bother to tell me.

She's 5 months pregnant and I didn't know until I saw them at one of my ultra sound appointments but everyone else in my family did.

Last time I saw them together she was wearing my late mother's locket which is the only thing I had left of her's which I thought was lost but my dad had given it to her instead.

He'd save money for me from when I was a child to pay for things when I started a family so I don't have to put my twins in draws like my mum and dad did with me. But instead they put the money into a holiday home.

When I go and visit them they never want to talk to me. He always puts me down when I see them. He never tells me anything anymore. I am worried because he is not well, he hasn't been since I was a kid and now he looks very ill that I'm starting to think I'm not going to be told when he dies and find out like six months later that he is dead.
 
Tell him how you feel and tell him that you love him and want to be part of his life. Money is not important, being with your Dad is.
 
It sounds like you need to tell him all you just posted. I know its hard but the only way to figure it all out is to just confront him. hope all works out:)
 
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