OK well heres the thing... i like my best friends older brother. He likes me too but the thing is... we've never met. I know this might sound crazy but its true. We like each other for our personality's and we couldn't wait to meet each other. We have been talking for about 3 years and have never met. He wanted to meet up with me yesterday and i said no. He's been wanting to see me for a year at least and every time he's asked me out ive said no because i don't want to meet him and have him be disappointed. Im no where NEAR a stick and i think im pretty and people say im pretty but really... how can i be pretty when im overweight? I wear clothing thats the right size and i dont have fat "hanging over" my pants and ive been on so many diets its crazy anyway im just really insecure. But i kinda think he thinks im this little anorexic twig and so im scared to meet and him just run away. I have never had a boy friend but i also have just set myself up for failure because guys have asked me out but i always say no :/
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But anyway he told me he's "Not gonna try anymore" and he hasn't texted me since. I feel so bad!!!!! Now if he asks me one more time im gonna say yes but i really dident know what i had till it was gone and really am sad... Do guys give second chances a lot? or once a girl blows it thats pretty much it?? Also do guys really care if a girl isent that pretty but has a nice personality? I never tried to make him think i was beautiful or anything close to it.
Sorry if it's confusing!!! just answer the last part please! And thanks a lot
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But anyway he told me he's "Not gonna try anymore" and he hasn't texted me since. I feel so bad!!!!! Now if he asks me one more time im gonna say yes but i really dident know what i had till it was gone and really am sad... Do guys give second chances a lot? or once a girl blows it thats pretty much it?? Also do guys really care if a girl isent that pretty but has a nice personality? I never tried to make him think i was beautiful or anything close to it.
Sorry if it's confusing!!! just answer the last part please! And thanks a lot