My crush (AKA my best friend) now know i like him, and is saying he loves me too..

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but i think he's joking....? okay.. it's a really long story, but he's been trying to guess who i like for a while now, he was pretty stuck on one guy (his friend) for a while there. last night though the conversation was like..

him- i know who you like
me- oh really? you think __ don't ya?
him- ya, no, me (in my head i was freakin out)
me- if i say yes, will you stop harassing me on this subject?
him- yea
me- ok, then i'm saying yes, i don't want you bugging me about liking ___ any more
him- u love me
it's ok I'd love me too
jk
me-i know you love you :P
him- I love u too
me- (i can't tell, are you being serious or joking? it's kinda hard to tell)
him- ya that's y it's funny
me- huh? :P haha (i'm sorry, it's late, i'm slightly confused)
him- it's ok, that you love me

and pretty much the conversation continued like this for a while.. i'm so confused, cause from what he said about him loving me, it seemed like he was just kidding. and i'm scared right now, cause this is kinda what i've wanted, but i'm so afraid that i'll lose him as one of my best friends, and i'm just confused. i've never dealt with this stuff before, though i should have by my age. i just haven't. please help me, what do i do now? we live in a small town, so there's nothin for us to do here, we can't just go see a movie or anything cause there's no theaters no nothing! please help!
 
I have been on the guy side of this situation before and I did not date my best friend even though she told me she loved me. Although today 3 years later we are still the best of friends, obviously we have both moved I am now in the Army and she is going to college but we are still bff...
 
Hmm... toughy, i say... if you value him as a best friend, keep him as a friend... because in case you guys break up, you guys won't see each other as "friends" and if you get another bf, your other bf will feel VERY uncomfortable that you are friends, even "BEST" friends with your ex and we guys don't mess with chicks that are friends or best friends with their ex's, It let us know that you girls are still obsessing over your ex's or worse, might still have feelings for them. And if we're in bed with you girls, you will think about your ex instead of your own bf.... Its sick... but it's just my luck.

I say, forget him and find another..... the relationship might go wrong and in the end it wont be the same. Besides, it seems as if he was toying with you.... from how you set up and worded the conversation, it seems as if he wasn't into you and just wanted to know cuz he was curious, guys can be curious when they are bored and in the end, they either mess with you thanks to boredom or they talk to you and tell you they are into you or not.... be strong, and talk to him, confront him to see what else he says.... ask him if he gets that "feeling" when he is around you or not... if he laughs or "lol" then he is just messing with you.


I hope i helped! if so, please vote for my answer to be "Best answer" Thanks!
 
Hmm... toughy, i say... if you value him as a best friend, keep him as a friend... because in case you guys break up, you guys won't see each other as "friends" and if you get another bf, your other bf will feel VERY uncomfortable that you are friends, even "BEST" friends with your ex and we guys don't mess with chicks that are friends or best friends with their ex's, It let us know that you girls are still obsessing over your ex's or worse, might still have feelings for them. And if we're in bed with you girls, you will think about your ex instead of your own bf.... Its sick... but it's just my luck.

I say, forget him and find another..... the relationship might go wrong and in the end it wont be the same. Besides, it seems as if he was toying with you.... from how you set up and worded the conversation, it seems as if he wasn't into you and just wanted to know cuz he was curious, guys can be curious when they are bored and in the end, they either mess with you thanks to boredom or they talk to you and tell you they are into you or not.... be strong, and talk to him, confront him to see what else he says.... ask him if he gets that "feeling" when he is around you or not... if he laughs or "lol" then he is just messing with you.


I hope i helped! if so, please vote for my answer to be "Best answer" Thanks!
 
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