confused.? My cousin, he's almost 20, just got into a relationship with a guy recently. I last saw him a month ago though, before the relationship, and he kept talking so badly about gays. Every gay guy he saw he said "Wow he's such a faggot." or "You can tell he's gay because he's dress like that ew." So, I'm confused. Was he gay this whole time and was just in the closet?? I mean, idk how he can go from talking badly about gays to being into a relationship with a boy within a month