cope? He joined a few months back and i knew in the back of my mind that this day coming but i never wanted it to.don't get me wrong im proud but we haven't gone a day without talking our whole lives hes 19 and im 17 all we have is each other i could tell him anything and now he just up and left and all i get is a letter a week for 3 months then he comes home for 2 weeks and just up and leaves me again i just cant seem to stop crying is there anyway you have coped with something like this i just need some advice.