I am absolutely sick of it. 
( I really need advice. He's almost 19 and I'm 17.
He complains about how lazy everyone in the house is and how we do nothing, when really we're the ones picking up his slack and doing all the cleaning while he does college homework and plays guitar. Good for him, he has a hobby but that shouldn't be a way out of helping around for once.
He always uses "I don't have time!" as an excuse and hands his chores over to me, and there he goes to play guitar or PS3. I don't care how much work he has to do in college, he shouldn't have been procrastinating in the first place. Plus, it's HIS life, HIS homework, I have my own shzt to worry about as well and I can't be waking him up for school every morning or worrying about him.
The thing is, once I confront him he doesn't want to talk or listen. I am completely calm when I talk to him and I am NICE. But then he starts getting defensive and hitting things, throwing things, yelling in my face even. I'm just sick of cleaning up after his tantrums and being treated like nothing when I'm really worth something. I'm sick of bottling up rage which will someday turn into something bigger if he doesn't stop. Its come to a point where I don't even want to be home at all anymore.
This repeats more than once a week! Thank you for any help.
( I really need advice. He's almost 19 and I'm 17.He complains about how lazy everyone in the house is and how we do nothing, when really we're the ones picking up his slack and doing all the cleaning while he does college homework and plays guitar. Good for him, he has a hobby but that shouldn't be a way out of helping around for once.
He always uses "I don't have time!" as an excuse and hands his chores over to me, and there he goes to play guitar or PS3. I don't care how much work he has to do in college, he shouldn't have been procrastinating in the first place. Plus, it's HIS life, HIS homework, I have my own shzt to worry about as well and I can't be waking him up for school every morning or worrying about him.
The thing is, once I confront him he doesn't want to talk or listen. I am completely calm when I talk to him and I am NICE. But then he starts getting defensive and hitting things, throwing things, yelling in my face even. I'm just sick of cleaning up after his tantrums and being treated like nothing when I'm really worth something. I'm sick of bottling up rage which will someday turn into something bigger if he doesn't stop. Its come to a point where I don't even want to be home at all anymore.
This repeats more than once a week! Thank you for any help.