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I was at my bf's (3 yrs 8 months) friend's house & we were just hanging out...yeah in his room on his bed hanging out watching a movie. Stupid Idk. But he started putting his hands down my pants and I told him to stop so then he started playing with my hair and then proceeded to lift up my shirt. I put it back down and told him sternly he needs to stop. He said he needs to tell me something. I asked what. He says that my bf has been cheating on me with this girl. I told him I don't believe his stupid lies. He said he can prove it. He said they were out at this restaurant and he walked in and filmed it, hidden of course. I asked to see it. He showed me - it was my bf w/ this other girl and they were kissing like really passionately and then you could just see him feeling her breasts and then you could hear something that sounds like, "my place", probably "let's go back to my place" but I'm positive he was cheating! There's no way his friend could fake this & I did check the date on the video. It was while we were dating. My bf & I are DONE
I thanked him for telling me but then I broke down in tears. He said he doesn't even care that he betrayed his friend for showing me it. He said he wants nothing to do w/ him and I shouldn't either. He called him a douche for hurting me like that. I asked why he tried to take my clothes off. He said "honestly, I've known you for yrs and I don't want to see you go through that kind of pain. You deserve so much better and I really like you. I would treat you better than that." He wiped my tears away and hugged me. He said he apologizes if he went too far w/ how he touched me. I told him he is a really good friend. He smiled and said he thought of a way to cheer me up. He got his guitar and sang the song "You're Beautiful" by James Blunt to me. As he was singing it to me, he put a flower in my hair and held my hand. At the very end, he handed me a gift, wrapped all nicely. I said how he didn't have to get me anything and he said he wanted to. I opened it and it was a pink bracelet with beading that said, "you're beautiful, if only I could have you" I told him that was really sweet, thanked him, and I asked how long he's felt this way. He said since he's met me so it's been a while (we met 5 yrs ago).
I told him I like him too and smiled. He asked if it was ok if he kissed me. I nodded and we kissed. We kissed for a while (just regular kissing) and I pulled away and asked if we could just take it slow. He agreed. He said he just wants me to be happy. I told him I was going to go and thanked him for everything. I said how my boyfriend and I are over. He said he's sorry my bf hurt me and asked what this makes us. I said Idk and that I don't want him to think he's a rebound b/c he's not. He said he doesn't think that. He asked me on a date to a concert he has tixs to. I agreed and hugged him. I kissed him one more time and left. I'm not sure what to feel right now. I already dumped my bf w/out telling him his friend told me. We are done. I really like his friend a lot but I'm just worried he's using me. He seems very sweet and he agreed to go slow but why did he try to take my clothes off before? I just don't understand. I've known him for longer than I've known my bf & they didn't become friends until my bf & I started dating. Your thoughts? Thx
he has just filmed it a couple days before he showed me. he didn't keep it a secret
I thanked him for telling me but then I broke down in tears. He said he doesn't even care that he betrayed his friend for showing me it. He said he wants nothing to do w/ him and I shouldn't either. He called him a douche for hurting me like that. I asked why he tried to take my clothes off. He said "honestly, I've known you for yrs and I don't want to see you go through that kind of pain. You deserve so much better and I really like you. I would treat you better than that." He wiped my tears away and hugged me. He said he apologizes if he went too far w/ how he touched me. I told him he is a really good friend. He smiled and said he thought of a way to cheer me up. He got his guitar and sang the song "You're Beautiful" by James Blunt to me. As he was singing it to me, he put a flower in my hair and held my hand. At the very end, he handed me a gift, wrapped all nicely. I said how he didn't have to get me anything and he said he wanted to. I opened it and it was a pink bracelet with beading that said, "you're beautiful, if only I could have you" I told him that was really sweet, thanked him, and I asked how long he's felt this way. He said since he's met me so it's been a while (we met 5 yrs ago).
I told him I like him too and smiled. He asked if it was ok if he kissed me. I nodded and we kissed. We kissed for a while (just regular kissing) and I pulled away and asked if we could just take it slow. He agreed. He said he just wants me to be happy. I told him I was going to go and thanked him for everything. I said how my boyfriend and I are over. He said he's sorry my bf hurt me and asked what this makes us. I said Idk and that I don't want him to think he's a rebound b/c he's not. He said he doesn't think that. He asked me on a date to a concert he has tixs to. I agreed and hugged him. I kissed him one more time and left. I'm not sure what to feel right now. I already dumped my bf w/out telling him his friend told me. We are done. I really like his friend a lot but I'm just worried he's using me. He seems very sweet and he agreed to go slow but why did he try to take my clothes off before? I just don't understand. I've known him for longer than I've known my bf & they didn't become friends until my bf & I started dating. Your thoughts? Thx
he has just filmed it a couple days before he showed me. he didn't keep it a secret