metalbound
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we've been together for a while now, but this isn't actually a new thing. he's always said that he doesn't really have a sex drive. which, i know could be true, but i've caught him masturbating also. i honestly don't believe he is cheating on me. i'm very observant & know the signs as i've cheated on ex's before.
he is affectionate & loving & always touches me like he wants me & he knows that i'm up for it but then he just stops & walks away. i know that he is attracted to me, he tells me & i can see that he is.
i'm a reasonably sexual person & even though i can pleasure myself, it's no competition to the real thing. I don't know how much longer i can be with someone who wont have sex with me.
i've tried everything i can think of to spice things up & for it to be exciting but he just doesn't go for it. i've spoken to him about this & he says he wants things to change for the better but then nothing ever changes.. im not getting what i need. sex in a relationship with very important to me, which he knows, but I dont want to break up with him as the rest of our relationship is great.
what do i do??
he is affectionate & loving & always touches me like he wants me & he knows that i'm up for it but then he just stops & walks away. i know that he is attracted to me, he tells me & i can see that he is.
i'm a reasonably sexual person & even though i can pleasure myself, it's no competition to the real thing. I don't know how much longer i can be with someone who wont have sex with me.
i've tried everything i can think of to spice things up & for it to be exciting but he just doesn't go for it. i've spoken to him about this & he says he wants things to change for the better but then nothing ever changes.. im not getting what i need. sex in a relationship with very important to me, which he knows, but I dont want to break up with him as the rest of our relationship is great.
what do i do??