Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months.
When we used to have sex, it was amazing and mind blowing. Then one night, he wasn't into it 100%, and ever since then, we have just stopped having sex completely.
It's 100% psychological. He still gets hard around me and says he's very attracted to me, but everytime we even start to get sexual, he pulls back. He says its because hes made such a big deal about it in his head that when we start to get sexual, he starts thinking about it, and cant snap out of it.
Well, this has been going on for three months and I am about to go crazy! I know hes not cheating, and I know its nothing to do with me physically, but its affecting my self esteem. Ive already talked to him about it, and we agreed that we would just not have sex, so that he would not feel pressured. But I still feel unattractive and undesired, and feel like a total failure as a woman.
What can I do to get over this and be supportive?
Also, even though he stopped sleeping with me, hes gotten more serious about the relationship. He even took me home to meet the family for Thanksgiving. I just dont get it!
When we used to have sex, it was amazing and mind blowing. Then one night, he wasn't into it 100%, and ever since then, we have just stopped having sex completely.
It's 100% psychological. He still gets hard around me and says he's very attracted to me, but everytime we even start to get sexual, he pulls back. He says its because hes made such a big deal about it in his head that when we start to get sexual, he starts thinking about it, and cant snap out of it.
Well, this has been going on for three months and I am about to go crazy! I know hes not cheating, and I know its nothing to do with me physically, but its affecting my self esteem. Ive already talked to him about it, and we agreed that we would just not have sex, so that he would not feel pressured. But I still feel unattractive and undesired, and feel like a total failure as a woman.
What can I do to get over this and be supportive?
Also, even though he stopped sleeping with me, hes gotten more serious about the relationship. He even took me home to meet the family for Thanksgiving. I just dont get it!