My boyfriend went soft on me during sex?

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Sarah.x

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This has happend TWICE now :|
Once at the weekend when he was drunk, i didnt think much of it as most people do it now and again..
but it happend last night aswell when we was sober...weve been sexually active for 4 months so i dont get it.

Im starting to think hes going off me and not attracted to me anymore :( which kills me because i really do love him.
He says its not because of me and that im too paranoid but i dont know what to think :(
Hes 19
and he has had lack of sleep recently because of a health problem which is stressing him out
 
even if he's going off you, if every thing's 'active' when things are getting underway, he should be able to carry through if you're keeping up your end. might notice what you're doing when things start to cool.
 
it could be medical, like a bladder infection. I have these friends ( they r a couple) he had a cavity that he let go to long and had sexual issues like this . when he got his teeth fixed it seem to fix everything. but yes u didnt mention how old u or your boyfriend is,its hard to really answer but hes a guy its not u im sure no offense but guys have fun no matter weather its good or bad and if he was cheating unless he in his 80's he shouldnt have an issue because of that. try that KY warming
 
Something is definitely going on with him. It could actually be due to all the alcohol he is consuming but if it continues on past this week make him see his doctor. A good urologist will be able to tell him if his problem is psychological or physiological. I would bet anything that he has a lot on his mind too, this can be a huge libido killer too. Since you don't mention his age, all I can add here is that you need to just keep communicating (but not nagging). If he fails to work on this problem, dump him because there are plenty of other decent, active guys out there. Good luck!
 
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