jesskaisubercool
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I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I'm 23 and he is 25. He has a 14 month old baby with his ex, they were on and off for 4 years and lived together for a while. He talks what I feel like is a lot to her. He thinks I'm crazy and dumb for feeling awkward about it. So, with that said... he are the numbers. We share a phone bill and it's in my name so I can know how much he talks to each phone number and this last month he talked to her for 800 minutes on the phone and texted a little over 2,400 text messages. I feel that that is FAR too much, but they do have a kid together.... all opinions are welcome. Thanks in advance!
I've already talked to him about it, like i said he thinks I'm crazy for feeling annoyed by it. SHE doesn't want to be with him. I've even asked him if he'd leave me if she wanted him back and his response is "it doesn't matter, that would never happen". I just don't know..... it really bothers me though. I KNOW he still loves her but he does say they aren't right for each other. I guess my real question is how much is too much? I know that he talks to her too much right now but would anyone consider half that much as still too much. I just don't know where to draw the line and whats considered a normal amount.
I've already talked to him about it, like i said he thinks I'm crazy for feeling annoyed by it. SHE doesn't want to be with him. I've even asked him if he'd leave me if she wanted him back and his response is "it doesn't matter, that would never happen". I just don't know..... it really bothers me though. I KNOW he still loves her but he does say they aren't right for each other. I guess my real question is how much is too much? I know that he talks to her too much right now but would anyone consider half that much as still too much. I just don't know where to draw the line and whats considered a normal amount.